As a grandson of a WW2 navy pilot who also served as a refueling plane (KC-137) pilot in the Korean war, I've been trying to configure the real meaning of Memorial Day. While my grandfather survived both wars, so many have not. And yet so many people have tried to destroy the real reason for our freedom, there are so many fine and courageous men that are forgotten. Yet day and night, these brave souls rest in Arlington National Cemetery. A solemn and sobering field that is f